This is awesome!
And I’m overly excited!
I can not believe how easy it was and why did I even hesitate so long?..
Finally I started something new in my life. Something I’m proud of. Something that took me a lot of time and courage to begin. It’s just a post i know, but it wasn’t easy to start and now that it’s done I can proudly say that I’v overcome one of my fears and am overly happy that i don’t have to come up with stupid excuses to stop myself from posting my first post.
This is awesome! And I’m overly excited! I can not believe how easy it was and why did I even hesitate so long?..
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Critics is not necessary a bad thing, you have to learn to take the message people are trying to pass on to you , especially those closest to you. People who really care about you, criticize you not with the intention to hurt or upset you but most of the time because they feel sorry for you, or trying to help and no matter what way they express it, you have to try and control your defense line of your emotions. I mean not to get offended straight away but try and take on board whatever has been said with compassion and clear mind because most of the time people are right about you. I mean people who care about you, not them lot who talk behind your back, smile you in the face and laugh when you fail.
Me myself I really used to struggle to accept and appreciate critics, because in my childhood I’ve learned to manipulate people in the way that would leave me in a position where I’m always right. I cheat, I lie, I’d embarrass you, make you feel guilty and do whatever it takes to be the right one, always. So that I don’t have to face the reality and reality is bitter most of the time. That's how my emotional defense system works I'm afraid. It took a lot of effort for me to take it all in to take that step back, shut up swallow down that bitter bite of life and listen to what people got to say, and they’re actually fucking right! So I send out a massive thank you to all of my friends and those who tried to help me with your critics. Thank You! |
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